1960 Pal

We lived in Toledo, Ohio from 1960 until we left for Venezuela at the end of the school year in 1961.  Every week I went to a riding school in Michigan.  There was a really beautiful Palomino named (surprise) Pal, but you had to earn the right to ride him.  Finally, Mr. White, our instructor (who was black), told me it was my day!  I was excited.  We did our routine exercises, then it was time for jumping.  

Pal and I flew over the first couple of jumps, then we approached the next jump.  Then he stopped.  He didn't tell me he was planning to.  I slid up his neck, over his head, and over the jump, landing on my knees on the other side.  Then he decided to follow me over.  Seeing a large airborne horse looming over me, I rolled over.  When I looked up, his nostrils were in my eyes.  "What are you doing down there?"  he asked.  My back hurt so badly I couldn't move.  My mother started to run out to the arena, but they stopped her.  Mr. White came over to me and helped me up.  He asked me if I could get back on.  I said yes.  So he helped me up into the saddle.  

I took one turn around the arena and had to get off, I was in so much pain.  It wasn't Pal's fault, either.  It was mine.  I should have been gripping tighter with my knees.   My mother took me to the doctor and we found out I had torn all the muscles in my lower back.  I was off school for a week and spent most of that week in a hot bathtub.  They told me if I got pregnant I might have to wear a back brace, since the muscles were weakened. Luckily, that wasn't the case.  I never got the chance to ride Pal again, because not long after that we moved.